Bonnie Wicks Bertalot
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June
27

Yesterday afternoon I spent a couple of hours with a family preparing their home for professional listing photographs. Most people probably imagine that a photo shoot is all about cameras, lighting, and making sure the house looks perfect. There is certainly some truth to that. Before the photographer ever takes the first picture, I walk through the house turning on lights, opening blinds, clearing countertops, hiding trash cans, putting toilet seat lids down, and making sure anything that doesn't belong in a photograph quietly disappears. In this home, that even included gathering up every dog toy before the photographer arrived.

Once everything is ready, the photographer begins working room by room. As she moves through the house, my job is simply to keep the homeowners one step ahead of the camera. If she is photographing the living room, we wait in the kitchen. When she moves into the kitchen, we step into a bedroom. We quietly move from room to room until every photograph has been taken. Those waiting moments are rarely silent. They are filled with conversations, and over the years I have learned those conversations are often my favorite part of the day.

Yesterday those conversations introduced us to Kane.

Kane is seven years old and has the sweetest face. He quietly watched all of us coming and going as though he understood something important was happening. His family smiled and told us there was one thing we needed to know about him. Apparently, Kane has a favorite song. If anyone begins singing If You're Happy and You Know It, he simply cannot resist joining in. It doesn't matter if he is sleeping, pouting, or pretending he isn't paying attention. The moment he hears that song, he sings.

Naturally, someone began singing.

Before long Kane lifted his head and answered with a long, unmistakable howl that filled the room. It wasn't something he had been trained to do. It wasn't a trick. It was simply something that had become part of everyday life in this home. You could tell by the smiles on his family's faces that this wasn't the first time they had watched Kane perform. It was one of those ordinary traditions that quietly become part of a family's history.

As often happens, one story led to another. My photographer talked about her own two dogs and the little things that make them special. A short time later the Homes.com photographer arrived to capture the drone footage, and before he unpacked his equipment he was sharing stories about his dogs as well. None of us had planned to spend the afternoon talking about pets. We had simply found something we all understood. For a little while we weren't thinking about cameras or marketing a home. We were simply enjoying one another's stories.

I couldn't resist sharing Kane with a few people who weren't there. I sent the video to Terry, to my daughter Robyn, and to a previous client who loves dogs as much as I do. Within a few minutes they were smiling too. It reminded me how quickly simple joy can spread. One family, one dog, and one little song somehow reached people sitting in completely different places.

As I drove home, I found myself thinking about something I had never really considered before. Professional photographs do a beautiful job of showing buyers what a home looks like, but they cannot capture what it feels like to live there. They cannot tell buyers about the dog who sings whenever someone starts If You're Happy and You Know It. They cannot explain the stories shared while everyone quietly waited for the next room to be photographed. They cannot record the laughter, the friendships, or the memories that have filled those walls over the years.

Soon another family will own this beautiful home. They will make memories of their own, and Kane will begin making memories in a brand-new house. I have no doubt he will still sing his favorite song whenever someone starts the first line.

Yesterday we took photographs that will help sell a house.

The conversations reminded me what makes it a home.

Perhaps that is one of the greatest privileges of my career. I am invited into people's lives during seasons of change. Long before the moving truck arrives and long before the closing papers are signed, I have the opportunity to hear the stories that no photograph will ever tell. Those stories stay with me long after the pictures have been taken, and yesterday, one of those stories belonged to a wonderful dog named Kane.

Bonnie Wicks, licensed as Bonnie Jean Wicks Bertalot, is an Associate Broker with Carolina One Real Estate and team lead of Shoreline Key Team, serving Mount Pleasant, Charleston, Summerville, Hanahan, Goose Creek, Ladson, and surrounding Lowcountry communities. Contact Bonnie at 843-754-0754 or visit bonniewicks.com.

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